Book Report

So I finally finished the Walter Mosley book.

All I Did Was Shoot My Man, a Leonid McGill Mystery

It took me two months, which is an indication that it was a good read but not a stay-up-all-night-because-can’t-put-it-down read like Mosley’s previous mysteries, the Easy Rawlins series (Devil in a Blue Dress, A Red Death, White Butterfly, Black Betty, A Little Yellow Dog, Gone Fishin’, Bad Boy Brawley Brown, Six Easy Pieces, Little Scarlet, Cinnamon Kiss, Blonde Faith, spanning a period from 1990 to around 2006).

All I Did Was Shoot My Man had so many characters that I got lost a time or two or three and wished I’d diagramed the characters. Have you ever done that … sketched a tree of characters, who they relate to and what they’ve done so when the author brings the character up later in the book you can quickly place their role in the current happening?

I’ve only had to diagram one other author, and that was Anne Rice in her Vampire series. And for the same reason … so very many characters and interpersonal relationships that spanned from book-to-book over a number of years.

All I Did Was Shoot My Man is the fourth in the series of Leonid McGill mysteries — something I was unaware of when Amazon sent me an email suggesting that, since I’d read so many Mosley books in the past, I might like his “new” book. One does not have to have read the preceding books to enjoy this latest, but my having not read books one and two and three probably added to why I sometimes became lost in who was who.

I have a lot of time on my hands, so I guess I’ll get into this Leonid McGill guy and catch up on Book 1: The Long Fall, Book 2: Known to Evil and Book 3: The Thrill is Gone. In between, I’ve still got that needlepoint project to complete …

Counted Cross Stitch Kokopelli

April's Progress

Counted Cross Stitch Kokopelli

May's Progress

… and another needlepoint project waiting to begin …

Counted Cross Stitch Kit

… but all the above now has to wait because of Amazon’s latest recommendation …

Sookie Stackhouse southern vampire series by Charlene Harris

Book 12

If this one is as captivating as the other in the book series, I’ll be done in a day or so.

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Weigh-In No. 2

Today’s weigh-in was a bitter disappointment. After doing everything right, I wound up with a 0.6 pound gain. Not a lot – a matter of ounces really, but I’m only asking the body to give up 1 pound a week and, despite sticking to plan, I didn’t make that goal.

One pound a week.

Is that too much to ask?

I think not.

The plan for Week 3 is to continue to do everything right except, on the off chance the gain is water weight because I’ve been sprinkling salt on watermelon to bring out the sweetness, I’ll be deleting the salt and substituting balsamic vinegar instead.

On another note, I got a kick out of seeing Weight Watchers on an episode of Mad Men.

Weight Watchers on Episode of Mad Men

I actually met Jean Nidetch, the founder of Weight Watchers, once. It was about 43 years ago. I was working in downtown Los Angeles and Nidetch was doing a book signing for the original Weight Watcher Cookbook. I used my lunch hour to get my book signed. And no, I don’t still have the book. I wish I did though, even if the book is no longer relevant, because it was a signed copy.

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Too Old Too Tired

That’s how I’ve been feeling since the bout of calcific tendinitis slowed my roll.

It only took two trips to the acupuncturist to correct the pain and swelling, but the injury has left me feeling totally exhausted.

That first visit to Dr. Chan required a whole lot of needles – I lost count when we hit 100. The second visit, he only used about 40 needles.

Second Acupunture Treatment

I was to have returned today for a third treatment but, although it’s too soon for any serious physical activity, the knees are feeling stronger every day so I don’t see the need for a third treatment.

I can’t shake the sense that there was some significance to the timing of the tendinitis.

Feeling somewhat bored, resisting the urge to remain a recluse and not involve myself with people, I’d signed up to spearhead a water aerobics group here at the senior complex. The day before the group was to have started was the day the injury hit, resulting in a “postponement.” I’ve since had time to reconsider all the pros and cons of getting involved with other people, and I’m now inclined, once I can get back into water aerobics, to “cancel” that idea altogether. More than “inclined,” it’s a done deal. There are worse things than being bored and, although the tendinitis was an awful pain in my knees and lower legs, it probably saved me for an even more awful pain in my arse.

Since I appear to be destined to travel solo the remainder of the way, I’ve been spending the time working on that needlepoint project, still reading the Walter Mosley book, meditating and watching television. Too much television. In fact, so much television that, something clicked when I saw Ms. Piggy on The Bachelorette last night.

The Divine Ms. Piggy

“I recognize that fabric, that dress,” thought I. My mind went back to the Project Runway episode where designers were challenged with a red carpet dress for Ms. Piggy. Did a little research and, sure enough, it was Michael’s winning design.

Project Runway Ms Piggy Dress

When Michael’s design won, I wondered if the final product would be off-the-shoulder for Ms. Piggy as well, but see they added straps.

It bothers me that I can’t remember my address or people’s names or any number of other way more legit things, but I can recall the origin of  Ms. Piggy’s dress. Is the aloneness and too much TV rotting my brain? Am I becoming shallow? I hope I don’t become one of those old ladies who walk around talking to themselves.

At any rate, since exercise is out of the question for the time being, I’ve been putting the focus back on weight loss. After gaining back 19 of the 31 pounds lost before relocating to Long Beach, I folded two weeks ago and rejoined Weight Watchers. Lost 4.8 pounds the first week. Week 2′s weigh-in is tomorrow.

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Mother’s Day

So I survived the tumultuous time between Mother’s Day 2011 and Mother’s Day 2012, but with a marked difference – this time around I wasn’t too depressed and, subsequently, did not become so sick and fevered that I could not allow myself to be “honored.”

It’s true I have been having negative emotional reactions to all the Mother’s Day ads on TV – which is understandable seeing as how my becoming a mother has spawned a Prodigal who in turn herself spawned so many damaged beings. It’s so saddens and fills me with guilt that I’ll probably always have trepidation about Mother’s Day until the day I die. But life is about choices and we have no control over the choices others make, so my choice now is to accept that life lesson, stop worrying about others and focus on my own salvation.

At any rate, I have healed sufficiently to where this year I was able to accept an invitation to Tea with Daughter No. 2.

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

 Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

Barbara's Tea House

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No Mistakes

That’s the philosophy I live my life by – that no matter what, there’s a reason for everything that happens to us because there are no mistakes in God’s Kingdom … and in spite of appearances to the contrary, this IS God’s Kingdom.

Take for instance today. As I sitting in the car in the parking lot of the Chinese Restaurant, my friend R called to say she stopped for gas, now her car wouldn’t start and she’d have to call AAA. Our lunch date was cancelled.

No problem, I thought, for I automatically knew there was a reason for the happening.

After receiving her assurance that I was not needed for assistance, I headed out to find some lunch and kill the two hours until my manicure/pedicure appointment.

Driving down Foothill Blvd towards the area of the appointment, I kept an eye out for what was going to happen or not happen as a result of the happenstance – Was I being saved from something? Was I going to see someone I’d not have seen otherwise?

Having experienced or seen nothing that appeared to answer those questions, I arrived in the area of Victoria Gardens and realized it was a good place to kill 2 hours. I drove around for a bit trying to decide what I wanted to eat and then Voilà …

Victoria Garden's Farmers Market

Victoria Garden's Farmers Market

Who knew?

I certainly did not and probably would not, but for the happenstance.

Resisting kettle corn and sweet treats, I found myself at the French Quarter booth and ordered Hot Water Cornbread.

Victoria Garden's Farmers Market

Wouldn’t you know … the guys were having trouble with an outlet, consequently, no hot water cornbread today. Potato Salad looked good, but after tasting a sample I settled on chicken winglets and collard greens.

Victoria Garden's Farmers Market

Actually, the guys laughed when I ordered hot water cornbread. How they took a look at me and assessed I couldn’t be down with that I don’t know, but the older of the three guys said, with a smile, “What do YOU know about hot water cornbread?”

“We were poor,” I replied. “Hot water cornbread was sometimes all we had to eat. When we were lucky, we had beans to go with it. I sometimes still get a hankering for it, but it never comes out the way I remember.”

Victoria Garden's Farmers Market

At any rate, the guys told me to come back next Friday. Now that I know about the Farmer’s Market, I will be back next Friday for that cornbread and more of those delicious greens — I can live without the chicken. I’ll also be making a visit to Tamale Guy’s booth — that is if the Universe doesn’t call up another happenstance which leads me in a different direction.

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